Of Christian Sisters and Nails

#LoveWednesday In the world of ‘nails’, the lady is not left out, it is just societal disposition that makes her case oblivious. She doesn’t propose, so she technically cannot get a nail. But then, are there not subtle, silent, and inconspicuous nails? So she is his friend. She likes him and he likes her, but […]

The Nature of Love

#LoveWednesday The nature of Love is to grow or die. It can’t be left on a spot unattended It is either serviced by nourishment Or impoverished by neglect Perhaps many of us young people don’t know this We initiate love, and think we can just let it loose We don’t want it to die, Yet […]

What Make Marriages Last Long?

#LoveWednesday What holds couples together? What makes them last long? What binds them forever? What is the motivation that keeps marriages? The thought that God hates divorce? The dread of the wrath of disobeying him? The fear of falling short of religious standards? The shame of having missed the ‘will-of-God’? The warnings from family members? […]

THE WAY TO LOVE HIM (RE: THE WAY TO LOVE HER)

#LoveWednesday A lady deserves a man who loves her One who is falling head over heels for her One who is willing to pursue her strongly One who won’t take her for granted Nor give up on her But will persist and wait and even beg her One who has great plans for her One […]

True Love; My Speculations

    #LoveWednesday I’ve learnt true love is all that matters The problem is only in defining what it is Or is it that it means different things Or perhaps, you can’t tell it from afar Or perhaps, you can’t say this or that is it Only when a lifetime is spent Then, can you […]

Tell Her Not To Worry

#LoveWednesday Tell her not to be scared Tell him not to worry nor fret Tell her not to be afraid Tell him not to be dismayed     That marriages fail does not mean his will That hearts break is no reason hers will   Only tell her to look ahead, unto Love To keep […]

Reactions To “STOP THE LIES JÒÓ (2)”

#LoveWednesday (My post last Wednesday generated a lot of mixed reactions and I thought I should let you know what people said about it. I have put their comments together exactly the way it was written. Please, do learn from it. Note: the names are my own mental creation. Here is a link to the […]

STOP THE LIES JÒÓ (2)

#LoveWednesday (Read Part 1 at: Stop The Lies Jòó ) In all my years of listening to married people talk, I have not heard anyone admit that the challenges faced in the marriage of those who claim to have married the ‘will-of-God’ are different from those who didn’t. All they have said is: by marrying the ‘will-of-God’, […]

Stop The Lies Jòó

#LoveWednesday STOP THE LIES JÒÓ www.dnaughtyboy.wordpress.com Stop telling us a lie Stop selling us half-truths Stop living in self-denial Slop playing the blame game Tell us how you both started sweet Tell us about the butterflies Tell us the joy you felt when you first saw her And the peace that settled as she held […]

LET IT NOT BE.

#LoveWednesday #StoriesBehindThePosts #2015PostsReview LET IT NOT BE (15/10/2015) I remember the night I wrote this post. Adeola-mi had been far away for a while and that was taking its toll. It was at that time that I met an old friend who I had preciously had a crush on, and before I knew it I […]