Divorce is Not an Option

#LoveWednesday Adeola-mi, I was going to write a different thing to you tonight, but the recent happenings around has turned me in a different direction. You see dear, as we journey in this marriage, and as our wedding day draws near… Before we enter into this thing, I want you to know…. THAT DIVORCE IS […]
When Love Happens
#LoveWednesday Is it possible to stop thinking about you? Is it possible to totally forget you? Is it possible to get you out of my mind? Like, be immune to the sweetness you command Cos the way you fill my thought is quite enormous Not that I’m complaining, I’m just curious Was it I that […]
Of Christian Brothers and Nails (Part 2)
#LoveWednesday (Read part 1 here: http://wp.me/p2D2CT-nF ) Nail three: So…there’s this final guy who is a friend to this girl; not just a friend but a very close one. They’ve been together for a while, they like each other, and have made it known severally, using diverse mono and multi-syllabic appellations like ‘sweetie’, ‘dear’, ‘sugar’ […]
Of Christian Brothers and Nails
#LoveWednesday There are types of nails and they come in different sizes and shapes. Of course, I’m not a carpenter, neither the son of any. I’m only referring to the fear of most men-the fear of rejection, the fear of that ever resounding ‘No’-especially the Christian brother. Don’t be fooled. Contrary to the world of […]
What Make Marriages Last Long?
#LoveWednesday What holds couples together? What makes them last long? What binds them forever? What is the motivation that keeps marriages? The thought that God hates divorce? The dread of the wrath of disobeying him? The fear of falling short of religious standards? The shame of having missed the ‘will-of-God’? The warnings from family members? […]
The Lover Boy
#LoveWednesday Some guys (and ladies) spend most part of their growing up years chasing and trying to make one relationship or the other work. They expend so much mental energies trying to toast a girl, maintain, or keep a relationship at all cost, while the girls they are pursuing keep moving on with their lives. […]
THE WAY TO LOVE HIM (RE: THE WAY TO LOVE HER)
#LoveWednesday A lady deserves a man who loves her One who is falling head over heels for her One who is willing to pursue her strongly One who won’t take her for granted Nor give up on her But will persist and wait and even beg her One who has great plans for her One […]
The Way to Love Her
#LoveWednesday All they’ve ever told us was to find a woman who fits A woman who aligns with our purpose, who wouldn’t be a setback One who will help us fulfil our dreams, who fits our temperaments One who is not necessarily called to the Apostolic ministry So that while we are away saving the […]
The Newest Way To Love
#LoveWednesday The way relationships happen these days amazes me Perhaps, the many failed relationships, Extended years of ‘’boyfriend and girlfriend’’ (And by that, I mean relationships without Any serious commitment), Easy access to sex and its progenitors, The desperation of picking a Saturday, The pressure mounted by makeup artists, Bridal and events companies, And creative […]
One Way Love
#LoveWednesday In Love, You cannot love for two You cannot love her so much That you provide love for her And also provide her love for you It must always be hers to give It must always be a two way traffic not a roundabout or else, you’ll end in a U-turn. You […]

